The point is no universal definition of ‘perfect’ exists. Another person’s definition might be to get 100% marks in every exam. If only I stopped stammering my life would be perfectĮxactly how do you define perfect? Being fluent perhaps? But that’s your definition of perfect. Now surely that would stop you from doing what you wanted to, wouldn’t it?ģ. What would stop you from doing what you want to, is if every time you got up, an invisible force kept holding you back. How does this work? I don’t think stammering would stop you from doing what you want to. Stammering stops me from doing what you want to It makes no sense to compare yourself to others and wanting to be the same as others, because everything is already so different.Ģ. Where’s the sameness in this? There isn’t any. Is there any point in us trying to compare our heights when one of is already taller than the other? You might be 5’9 in height and from the United States. It’s a comparison thing.īut is the world really like this? I’m 5’7 in height and am from England. Society has falsely led people to believe they need to be as good as others. Because I stammer, it means I’m lesser than other people Below are 5 common beliefs about stammering you may find yourself in, along with different ways of looking at each one.ġ. Sometimes you can be so ‘into’ an emotion, it feels like no way out. Hiten titled his piece: 10 powerful reframes to deal with stammeringĭealing with the emotional aspects of stammering can be tough. I am pleased to have Hiten as a guest writer today, sharing how we can turn negative thoughts about stuttering into a more positive perspective. Hiten also offers his services as a Mentor/Coach for people who stutter. He writes just enough to make us really think about the topic at hand and how it may apply to stuttering (or stammering, as it is known in the UK and other parts of the world.) Hiten is known for his short, powerful posts on managing stuttering in our every day lives. Hiten Viyas, from England, writes regularly from his blog, the Stuttering Hub. The following is a guest post written by a good friend of the stuttering community.
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